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Originally Posted by piecenick
It sounds like a messy job that needed to be done, the fact that he may have enjoyed doing it is besides the point. What if he had just put her in bed dirty, covered in vomit? Then she and her friends would be right to criticize, and where were they, why didn't some woman go take care of her?
Getting passed out drunk, she is lucky getting seen nude was the worst that happened to her. This was her fault she needed help, not his.
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I hear this perspective. Sounds like you're agreeing with some of the commenters in the original thread.
Well, again, the deal is, this guy was longtime friends with the girl. So it wasn't really a 'girlfriends needing to take care of girlfriends' type situation. All her friends knew this guy was her longtime friend, and they were all drunk, whereas the guy was sober enough to drive. So from their perspective they were making a responsible decision (I think they were, in fact).
I think I'd still play devil's advocate. Why couldn't he have removed her dress, gotten some washrags or a towel, and cleaned her up 80%. This would have been an easy way to respect her privacy in a vulnerable moment. Sure, she would have woken up feeling a bit dirty, but that tends to happen when you get black out drunk.
Don't get me wrong -- the pervy part of me loves the fact that he stripped and showered his drunk dream girl. But it still feels like recognized the perfect opportunity to get her naked. I have a few really cute female friends. I can imagine this situation happening with them. If I were to get them naked and in the shower in a situation like this (as opposed to simply cleaning them off and leaving their underwear on), I'm sure I'd be fighting back a boner the whole time. Probably not even fighting it lol.
Does anyone agree with me? It's fine if not lol. Just curious.