what works for us
Lisa and I are coming up on 27 years of marriage and have been together nearly 32. I'm not sure we have ever intentionally spiced things up or maybe look at it a different way. We have just always been open and willing to talk about things that turn us on or fantasies we would like to try or not try. We also don't take it so serious. We are also looking forward to the next stage. Our oldest child who had moved back in after graduating college has recently moved out into her own apartment. Our youngest is in her last year at UW Madison. So being nearly empty nesters opens up new things we couldn't often do. Such as am I am typing this we are watching the Packers/Bears game and Lisa is sitting topless on the couch next to me. Granted she is under a blanket because we have the windows open and it is a little chilly for her.
I think I'm starting to ramble now so I will end by saying communicate with your spouse. It works for us.
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