[VivianParker]

So I spent YEARS suffering (not really, that’s a strong word) because I had this bullshit hang up about how there was something mistaken with me because intercourse would always chafe (despite being a squirter which makes no sense?) and I was too scared to say anything to my then bf now husband because Iwas TERRIFIED that he would get upset because it meant he didnt arouse me (not true at all). What bullshit, right? Finally I ended up crying to him after he brought up how he was getting sore from friction and now we use lube like it’s going out of fashion and holy shit, what a difference??? Not only is it so much more comfortable, its turned into a whole foreplay thing where we lube each other up and have a great time. Seriously, how did this take so long to happen? Even if you dont have self lubricating issues, give lube a go. Its brilliant. I’m so mad at myself for having such a stupid hang up.