Early on in our relationship, my would-be wife and I used to have sex almost everyday. Neither of us could get enough. She had (and still does for that matter after almost 20 years) an absolutely smoking hot, tight body, with long black hair, and an ass to die for. She is also very adventurous in the bedroom and open to dirty talk, role play, and other fun and games. But, early on in our relationship one time when we were having sex I asked her about her masturbation habits, and she got all embarrassed. With a little smile, she claimed outright that she didn’t regularly masturbate. I suspected that she wasn’t being forthcoming but decided not to dwell on the subject.
Often when we would mess around I would encourage her to touch herself and bring herself to orgasm in front of me. After a couple drinks she would usually willingly oblige. I found it hot AF to listen to her moans and watch her get off. But, even though she was comfortable to play with herself in front of me, whenever I asked her how often she masturbates by herself she would always deny she ever did.
Fast forward several years to 2020. To help deal with the boredom resulting from COVID restrictions/shutdowns, I bought my wife a new sex toy, the satisfyer penguin. I definitely made the right choice. She absolutely loves the thing. She said that she’s never experienced that kind of pleasure before and laughed that it might become addictive. On one occasion when she was using it on herself at full power she squirted for the first time in her life, completely soaking the bed sheets. She was really embarrassed when that happened but I reassured her that it was completely natural, and that I actually found it super sexy. I told her that she should use it by herself anytime she wanted and not be embarrassed about it, but she basically laughed it off.
About a week ago, I was surfing the net trying to decide what kind of new toy to buy her. I happened to notice in a write up about the penguin that it is waterproof and can be used in the shower and bath. I had totally missed that when I first bought it. I mentioned this to my wife and told her that I would leave it in the shower so that she could use it whenever the urge arose. She laughed and said that it wasn’t necessary. But, I put it in the shower room anyway. I placed it in a corner on a shelf where it would not get wet while someone was taking a shower. After that, every time after my wife had a shower, I would check to see if it had been moved or was wet. For a few days, no luck. It never moved from where I had put it and was always totally dry.
Yesterday, as I was going out the door to run some errands, my wife had just completed her morning workout and was about to take a shower. I told her I would be back in about an hour. When I got back, as usual, I checked the penguin. To my surprise it was in the same corner but positioned at a different angle and all wet. I was pretty sure that she had finally used it by herself. I didn’t say anything to her right away though. I waited until later that night when we were relaxing and having a glass of wine. When I asked her, she gave me a big guilty smile. I said that she must have used it because it was moved and all wet. She said ‘yes, when I got into the shower I saw the penguin and I realized that you were out and I could relax and use it without you possibly barging in.” This was a huge step - it was really exciting to hear her finally admit her ‘dirty deed’! I told her that she should use it anytime she wants, even when I’m in the house. I said that we could even set a time period during which I absolutely would not come into the bedroom and she could have total privacy to play with her toy. Of course, I would love to watch or participate but there’s also something extremely arousing about the idea of my wife playing with herself alone without me. Anyway, unfortunately she has not yet come around to my idea of of a ‘masturbation break’ so to speak. I plan to keep encouraging her though!
Curious if others have similar experiences and how other wives/GFs react when the topic of their masturbation comes up?
By the way, sorry for the really rough description of everything. I realize I’m much more of a photographer (of my wife anyway) than a writer!
