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Originally Posted by Almost_There
There are some similarities between my andTomkat2's situation, and some differences.
Knowing what Tomkat2 did about his wife when he met her, I could never have hooked up with her, but that's where we're different.
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I don't know if I knew EVERYTHING about her previous sexual experiences and how many men she had been with that I could have hooked up with her like I did in my early twenties. I was not secure enough to handle it I think. Before I slept with her I did know she had slept with a number of guys I knew and had an idea she was an easy lay but I was still super attracted to her and wanted her anyway. I had no idea about the number black men she had been with and how many lovers she had actually had. By the time we met I had never seen her with a black man. There were several white guys I saw her with but had no idea about her past. It seemed she had gotten over her black obsession by the time we met.
As I said, I was warned by my friend about her but I was just so attracted to her rare beauty. she was also pretty open with me fairly early on admitting some things what shocked and bothered me but she certainly didn't give the the details like she did last week. I almost broke it off with her because of the stories because I wasn't sure I wanted to be with a woman like that but somehow thought perhaps she was just boasting. Who know what I was thinking. She also really hurt me when she admitted to the the affair early on and I was so bummed out for a long time because of it.
There were plenty of clues to some of the more extreme aspects to her sex life like this girl confronting her her about fucking the girl's boyfriend. She called her all kinds of name like , s*#t, Wh#r% and cum dump and threatening her. I was blinded by lust and eventually love and could not let her go.
I an so much secure now and when she gave the details last week she had left out years ago, it supercharged my libido thinking about all those men being so attracted to her and knowing how gorgeous she was back then. She is still very beautiful, mature but beautiful and looks many years younger than she is and always looked younger than her real age. She looked like a teenaged girl into her thiries and hated it back then but appreciates it now.
I know my friends say she is gorgeous and I've had to head off some of their advances in the past. This reminds me of something that happened at a party several years ago. My buddy who had tried to warn me off her is still my friend and he introduce another guy he knew to my wife. When he did the guy, who was quite drunk said, "Are you THE Angela?"
My friend laughs it off and the guy leaves. MY wife says, "What was that about?"
My buddy looks at the ground sheepishly and says, "Oh it's a little rating system we come up with for women. It's kind of juvenile and we call attractive women Angelas, in honor of you and give them a number. She opened her mouth in mock shock and says, "You bastards!" and then laughs. She then asked him what number she got and he tells her she's a "0". She told him that doesn't sound good and her assured her it was VERY VERY good. He then explained the number system refers to the number of beers it takes for a guy to fuck them. The more the guy has to drink the less attractive the woman is. He said she has alway been a 0 and even much younger guys would consider a 0...1 tops.
I'm sorry Almost There has so many problems dealing with his wife's infidelity and I wish you could learn to deal with it in some way. It can be a rocky road sometimes but some women are worth it but it takes a different kind of guy to handle it.