Not my wife, but that is the future plan.
We've not inquired too much into each other's pasts but are not hiding things from each other, to my knowledge. I have a longer past, and she isn't a jealous maniac but has been triggered by certain things (e.g. a woman she doesn't like flirting with me). I'm sure she has had sex with a handful (maybe a couple hands full) of guys. She is younger and wrapping up school, but I was caught off guard in a positive way recently.
If any of you have read some of my other posts, I've mentioned that she has a best friend that she is roommates with at school. They talk to each other a couple of times a day and are really close, and she has started to have a bit of an exhibitionist streak catching me changing or in the shower and turning her facetime camera on me. We've shown the two of us to her, too.
I don't protest other than a "hey", because it is a turn-on. I have wondered why she likes doing it (again, no complaint from me), but I didn't want her to stop if I asked the question in the wrong way. I've asked during hard sex if she likes showing me off and got a yes, but I never brought it up afterward, and she didn't either.
Sorry for the back story, but that is the reason I learned about this part of her sexual past. I finally just came out and told her that it was a turn-on for me when she does that and to keep doing it. I got a little bit of push back along the lines of "oh, so you like her seeing you," and I thought I had screwed up. I didn't, thankfully, and I just answered that I thought it was hot that she did it. I asked if she had ever done anything with her GF before, and I got a sort of shy answer of "yes". My mind was 100% on her girlfriend doing the reverse and showing off her boyfriend, but nope that wasn't it. The two of them have played together.
I don't think she was trying to be deceitful but acted embarrassed by it. I probably asked her for a half-hour on the what/when/where. She started off shyly telling me about it and got more into it the more I did. They rent a house together at school with two other girlfriends, and the two of them share a bathroom. They had been very casual around each other, getting ready for a long time. Her girlfriend "S" had a broken arm and was in a cast, and needed help wrapping her arm in a plastic bag to take a shower. It sounds like they did that a few times, and it evolved to just helping her take a shower with a wand vs. spending 10 mins trying to wrap and tape a bag on her arm. That led to being even more casual around each other and ended up with helping her shave her legs and other parts. I don't know how quickly things jumped from wash my back to shave the back of my legs, but if I had a time machine, I try to dial in the date for shave my pussy
The pinnacle is that they have both gone down on each other. I don't know how often it happened, but I know it did once, and it was S who did it first. When I asked what led to that, I just got a smile. Any attempts to find out more have been met with a smirk/smile. I did at least get a sort of reluctant "yes" to my question if she liked it. No offense intended if this is your thing, but I'm glad her secret wasn't fucking the football team
