Many opportunities missed over the years. Some I have no regrets, some I regret, and some I am not sure. I was not nearly as adventuresome in my early days as I would be if I were single now.
My first missed opportunity that I clearly remember would have been my first time. I think I am glad I passed on it for a variety of reasons ranging from it would have been weird to my first time (the next summer) was with an amazing older (5 years older) woman who had a summer fling with me. In any case, it was my third cousin who was my age and wanted in the worst way to hook up with me. I was hung out a lot with her (male) twin brother at the time and was spending the night at their house. I remember I was hanging out with her in her room just before bed time. I cannot remember why I did not go out to feed the animals with her brother but we were laying on top of her bed watching Walker Texas Ranger and she said she was going to get comfortable for bed. She stood up and started stripping. I was being a gentleman and turned away. She told me I did not have to do that and then made is super weird by saying, "Your know third cousins can marry in California? I looked it up." I told her, "Well these cousins are not marrying." She said something like "oh whatever" and put on some PJ's. She tried to snuggle up to me but I kept moving over and she finally gave up. She was smoking hot but I could not get past the cousin thing.
I remember another time years later when a chick at the fire academy followed me into a supply room, blocked the door, pulled her shirt off, and threw herself at me. I pushed her away because I was worried about being caught and the professional implications. She was also smoking hot and I should have hooked up at least once.
I have had countless girls flirt with me since I have been married but never strayed. I guess a Harley riding, truck driving, real cowboy/rancher and firefighter in top physical condition with a ring on his finger is attractive to women.
Maybe I will share some other stories later but I am too tired and this is turning into one of those super long posts that annoy me.
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