[SpyStrip]

This is WAY easier than you may think. IMO, you are going about it the wrong way if you're simply proposing to your cousin the idea that you want to see her in the nude. Because we go to burning man regional events we are surrounded by people we've met over the past few years who are all comfortable with nudity, as long as it isn't per se sexualized for THE purpose of seeing what someone or someones look like in the nude. Now that Covid is in the past, at least enough to return to partying, my burning man group is once again having pool parties and have had, so far, two parties so far, one in May and one this Saturday on June 19. Everyone who goes to the party knows everyone will be nude. It's a very freeing experience and reminds one of "children at play" and not a lifestyle party. Our parties are in fact on Facebook and all you need to get invited is to know someone or have someone vouch for you. Then you can see the pages on Facebook for the "group".

To solve YOUR specific issue of wanting to skinny dip with one particular person, you should instead find someone you know who has a pool and ask them if you can have a pool party their that is swim suit optional. More people than you can imagine will come out to do this, especially if you remind people this is a safe environment that sets limits, does not include nor allow for gawking, and is ONLY a skinny dip event. Make it like ours, a BBQ event with B.Y.O.B, and everyone contributing some food and a $10 gift per person to the host. Then once your FB group is created and your event is up on the calendar, along with the "rules" re a calm and joyful naked event, invite your friends and your cousin and even co-workers to the event. It will in fact expand. No joke. Getting naked at a party where nearly everyone participates is a normal thing to do, and more would participate if it was understood that cameras and photos from phones are strictly prohibited. In fact, if you include in the description of the event 5 expectations of how the event goes down, that can really help. Also, make sure it's understood that it's swim suit optional. There will be varying degrees of nudity, and the next party you have a few weeks later will be more successful, and include more relaxed people.

Now I'm not going to pretend that your guests will not occasionally check out one another. I, like everyone I suppose, surreptitiously check out everyone else's body and I suppose they do the same thing and, like me, think to themselves, "Oh - so that's what Cheryl's vagina looks like. Nice trimmed bush. Her boyfriend's a lucky guy." But all of this is done without being a jerk-weed.

I hope this helps. PM me with any questions you may have. Think of it as fun, and you can't go wrong. Also, make it clear that it is 18 years and older, and no pets. Not that nudity around young people is a bad thing - it isn't. But most will feel more comfortable knowing only adults will be there.