I think mine is kind of strange and totally different from how I usually am. I've only dated 2, maybe 3 women who smoked. I didn't continue with them for that reason. As much as I dislike smoking, I sometimes find it sexy when I see an attractive woman with a cigarette. Okay, part of me thinks "Damn, she hot... but she smokes" so she isn't someone I would go for. And the other part is like "damn, that's hot" so I want to watch her. Taking this over to my current girlfriend, she smoked for about 25 years. I think she quit and started using a Juul about a year before we got together. She's had a cigarette a few times since then but never while I'm there. Each of those times was while she was drinking (probably a lot). I'd like to see her smoking some night while we are out. Not just any night. One where she's dressed to impress and looking hot. I've mentioned it to her a few times. She said it probably won't happen unless she's had enough to drink. So I bought a pack of the brand she used to smoke and bring them with us some nights when we go out.
I think it's more about the look and maybe seeing her doing something that's "bad". The visual is one thing. Based on the few people I dated who smoke, I probably won't want her to do it much if at all if I kiss her afterwards.
For the smokers reading this, your probably wondering what the big deal is lol. This whole thing is so not me but kind of a turn on too. I was rock hard when I handed her the pack one night.
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