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Originally Posted by readynewman

Super excited to hear some updates. Do you plan to get more involved with S as well?

Thanks! I plan to post about the beach trip a little later today, but I’ll give you a general update now. Things are going really great relationship-wise!

This will sound like I’m some young kid, but I’m head of heels in love, and L is, too. I didn’t have some internal monolog where I promised myself I’d never be like this again, but I think I was pretty resigned to keeping my guard up with whomever I was in a relationship with.

L and I have been spending a lot of non-sneaking time together, and it has been fantastic. L has pretty much used every excuse in the book for us to legitimately do things together... I’m not sure how many more “errands” we could have gone on, lol. L said that her mom asked her a lot of general questions about me over the last couple of weeks... comments like she sure seems to like to hang out with me, and questions about why she isn’t dating anyone. I’ve kind of discounted this comment, but L says that she has even mentioned that she doesn’t know how I am still single and a little embarrassingly that I must have quite a few women lined up wanting to date me. L gave me a big smirk when she told me that and said, “do you?”. My smart-ass response was, of course not... once a woman waxes your dick, you belong to her for life, haha.

I took a big gamble this past weekend and told L’s parents that I really like her and want to date. We had a little neighborhood Memorial weekend cookout that we all went to. Nothing really big, probably ten or so families that are all friendly with each other. On a side note, there is a neighbor lady that all the wives HATE. She isn’t very attractive, but apparently, she has been a flirt to some of the husbands, and the claws are out. Anyway, I think it is kind of cute, but L’s instruction to me was to stay away from “that b*tch”. I don’t think L is the jealous type, but her claws were out, too. I might regret that, but I love it right now!

We all stayed for a few hours and then went to my place for some drinks. I bought this thing called a Bartesian that is like a Keurig for mixed drinks, and L and her mom love it. It saves me from being the bartender all the time, too. When I finally got enough courage, we were all feeling pretty good. I started off by saying that L and I have been spending more and more time together and that I really like being with her. L’s mom’s reaction was a bit of a smile and a bit of an eye raise at the same time. She kind of threw me off my speech a little, haha. L’s dad didn’t look mad or angry, but he didn’t look exactly thrilled, either.

When I finally got to the “I’d like to date L, if she is interested”, L’s mom’s reaction was a little bit excited or maybe a bit proud, like “I knew it!”. I’ll find out more about that later, but my take is that they have been talking about more than I know. L’s reaction was the same smirk and eye roll that I get a lot of the time, which was cute. There was a little bit of an awkward pause, and L’s mom blurted out, “well do you want to date?” It was adorable and funny, but L almost too quickly said yes. It made her mom laugh and certainly made me smile.

Dad didn’t have a lot to say... he didn’t act mad, but he wasn’t as approving as her mom. I did add in that they know me, and they know I’m a good person who will treat L well. Dad’s response was, “you better”, and that “I better not get her pregant”. L’s mom instantly smacked him in the arm. That was awkward to say the least, but my response was, “don’t worry, we are going to wait until we get married,” which got me a smack in the arm from L. No assassins have come for me in my sleep yet, but I’ve not ruled that out.

Things lightened up after a little while. Not completely relaxed, but not really tense. We don’t have wild parties, but we have been known to have a little too much to drink at times. L’s dad had a lot to drink, and I know I’m the reason. I had to help him get inside and to his bedroom. They have helped me get to bed before, too, so not completely uncharted territory... haha.

We probably called it a night about 30 mins or so after dad got tucked in, and L came and sat on my lap in front of her mom while we chitchatted. Her mom just kept smiling and shaking her head when I would look at her. I didn’t perceive it as a mad expression, more of an “I can’t believe you two” kind of thing.

Things have been ok between all of us. Mom seems to be much more comfortable so far, and dad isn’t threatening to chop off my dick. So I think all in all things went about as well as I could have hoped.

To your question about getting more involved with S. I don’t have any idea what will happen with that. I guess I can turn in my man card to the forum again, but I’m pretty crazy about L, and maybe I’ll have to post in the Missed Opportunity thread about it someday, but it isn’t something I think I need or want. I feel like it is just close girlfriends, and L likes showing me off. I am kind of interested if S showed off past boyfriends to L and if this is just what they do. Having her see us virtually was a much bigger turn-on than I would have ever thought it would be. I can understand why people like sites like Omegle. It was a big turn-on!

I sort of feel like if I bring S up, it won’t be good a good idea, and maybe L is waiting for me to bring her up. I just keep hearing a really loud “It’s a trap!” playing in my head, lol. I think it is safe enough to ask if she showed S the finished clone-a-willy. If it gets to the point of making S her own, I’ve decided that it is only fair that both L and S have to make me a clone-a-pussy. I would have zero guilt about that