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Old 05-10-2021, 03:05 PM
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That's not being a dumbass. That's as smart as it gets.




They are perfect, period! VERY lucky guy. I think it's very telling that you are concerned that she make good decisions for herself. Empowering her to do that is a good thing. My only advice would be to remember that most every 'movie drama' situation you can think of begins with someone making some decision or hiding some information from someone they care about to 'protect them'. It is better that you give her all the information so the both of you can make the best decisions possible. If you would like to see your relationship with her grow and/or endure, make sure she knows that at some point
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Things took a pretty big leap in a really short period of time. I'm not quite ready to push too much right now, but we will definitely need to have a pretty candid conversation about what she wants. If it is what I think she wants, we will have to be more "out", and that can come with a lot of potential downside for her. Unless she brings it up, I'm not planning to for at least a few weeks.
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