Updated from the weekend...
As I expected, L and her folks came over Friday night to have drinks around the fire pit. I think L had a lot to do with making sure that happened.
The going shopping idea worked great and even got both parents agreeing that L should go. I had a really nice time, even though I really do hate shopping! We both were able to get a few things, too.
I know jimmybob69 was joking about buying more panties… but we did freaking end up a Victoria’s Secret for bras (and ok… she got panties, too) and Lululemon for leggings. I can’t believe how much leggings freaking cost! We got a couple of looks from the workers in VS when L held up bras to see if I liked them… which was kind of exciting, actually.
We spent from noon until 6ish gone, and L did get a txt from her mom later in the afternoon asking, “are you having fun?”. L showed me the message and just responded yes with a smiley and got a smiley back. I’m not sure if that was an “I’m glad he hasn’t murdered you” smiley or something else, haha.
Besides the shopping, we got to spend quite a bit of time just talking. Foolish or not, I told her again how much I like being with her and how happy I’ve been since she started coming over. Long story short, she put her feelings out about us in a lot more mature way that I was attempting to and thinks of us as a lot more than friends with benefits. We obviously have more to talk about, but the two of us worrying about freaking each other out are behind us, I think.
Some of you might think that I’m a dumbass for going down this path, but after thinking about it a lot, I would have regretted pretending like it was more casual than it has become. My logic is pretty simple, I guess… if I’m lucky enough to have someone that cares about me, I better try and hang on to them.
L is naughty, by the way. Probably around eight Saturday night, my doorbell rang, and it was L. My first thought was, “ohhhh, fuck”, but she was sent to drag me next door to have a drink or two. Everything was completely laid back and cool… and L dropped that we had to go back out again Sunday morning so she could get mom a mother’s day surprise. L even teased her dad a little and said that way he could give her his mother’s day surprise while she was gone. Kind of funny watching L be the instigator.
I don’t know if anyone cares, but L’s surprise was flowers and picking up a nice breakfast for the two of them. Mine was trying not to run off the road while L gave me a hand job and road head at 8:30 AM on a Sunday morning.