When I was with my ex-wife, all of her friends were having babies in their very early 20s. Two of them talked about orgasms while breastfeeding, and their husbands wouldn't go anywhere near the milk.
I told this to my current wife. She thought that was insane--both the orgasms and the thought of husbands going anywhere near breastmilk, so she agreed with those husbands.
Until we had our first baby. My wife had several orgasms while nursing. She couldn't believe it. Then she begged me to try her milk. Like full on begged.
I reluctantly agreed.
Long story short, late at night when we were alone, her biggest kink was soaking us both in her milk as much as she could. She was so embarrassed by how much it turned her on, but it was a nightly thing for us for a long time.
Even now, well over a decade since she has had milk, she STILL loves to pretend that she is nursing me, and she is still pretty embarrassed by it, but I do my best to support her. I am indifferent about it, but it really turns her on to pretend, so I just go with it. She loves when we are laying on the couch, she takes out her breast, holds it in her hand, and tries to feed it to me. She is just sad that she doesn't have any milk to soak us with.
That is probably her biggest kink that she is in complete denial about.
As far as the OP's concerns, it's so completely normal. You get those who will talk about it, but more who won't.
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