I know there are some friends with benefits stories spread throughout this forum, but I figured it was ok to start a dedicated thread.
First off, I have a current friends with benefits relationship going on that will probably end this fall, unfortunately. I guess the one positive of covid for me is that I have a neighbor who has been home from college staying next door. She will be going back to campus in the fall, and my fun is going to come to an end.
For those of you that have been in one of these relationships, did they sort of just naturally end or was there a blow-up that caused things to stop? Her parents are my neighbors, so her father (in particular) finding out would make make our fun end pretty fast.
My relationship started off pretty innocently, and probably just started because of boredom. It would have probably never started if we were long term neighbors, but we've only lived next to each other for about 4 years (new neighborhood). She (I'll call her L) is certainly attractive and we have always been friendly. Her parents are both really nice and I'd say we are all pretty decent friends. We have the codes to each others garages and hang out at least a couple of times a month on the weekend.
Anyway, I've worked from home since the start of covid. In early April of 2020, I was in my home office and I saw L walking across my front yard to my door carrying her laptop. She wasn't dressed really inappropriately, but not like I usually see her, either. She had on some running shorts and a t-shirt, which just was not how she normally dressed. She looked like she had been lounging around. Long story short, the internet at their house was acting up and she was supposed to have a zoom call with her class and professor. What I got out of it was that some teachers didn't really care about how they connected and others were really particular about having their camera on and proving that they are paying attention. Essentially, she was desperate to get connected and I quickly helped her get connected to my internet. Sort of a funny side note, when she was beating on my door asking to use the internet I could hardly understand what she was asking for. If it would have been almost anyone else, I think I wouldn't have helped so quickly.
I set her up in my office area and grabbed my laptop and went to the kitchen table. She had her zoom class and came to the kitchen to thank me for bailing her out. I have to say, she looked cute as hell standing there and just looked completely different to me. We've seen each other a lot, and I don't want to paint her a prissy, but I'd never seen her looking so casual and like she just got out of bed. When a pretty woman thanks you (at least me), I think the default response is "anytime and it wasn't a problem at all" haha. With that she headed back to her house. I figured a crisis was averted and that was the end of that.
I'll type more about my situation later, but she was back the next morning at my house.
The sex is great and she is up for almost anything I suggest. I'm quite a bit older than she is (20 years) and I think her attitude is just a lot different than when I was her age. It seems like hooking up isn't such a big deal, oral is like first base now, and talking about sex is very casual. Which... makes me a little nervous. I don't think she wants her dad knowing about us (I certainly don't), but I'm not sure what she shares with her mom. She seems to have more of a sister type thing going on with her, but I don't think she would ever say anything. I do know that she has told at least two female friends, because she has stopped and texted with them mid-blow job before (again, maybe it is a younger generation thing... but if you have my dick in your mouth you can wait to txt? haha). I know she told them because I asked her what was going on each time, a little worried that it was mom or dad was asking why she was not at home. She flat out said who it was and that she told them she was chilling with me (by name) and giving me a blowjob. I freaked out each time, obviously, and she just laughed.
For those that are in or have been part of these relationships, were they completely casual or did feelings start to creep in? I obviously care for L, but I have no intention of us being a couple. When I've asked her about who else she sees, she pretty much ignores my question. I think she would tell me or I'd start to see less of her. Maybe I'm just a safe dick, but I worry feelings could make this go down a bad path. I'm still fucking others and while I don't bring that up with her, I've never made it sound like we are exclusive. For me, it has been an amazing year and I think it has been fun for her too.