Religion.
My wife was super religious when I met her going to church every Sunday plus a few nights a week with her family, when we started going together I went along as well for a while to get in her good books, but that did not last long.
SEX at 17 when we started going together she knew absolutely nothing at all about sex' she honistly thought that every time a woman had sex she had a baby and that her mother must have been a very sexy woman as she had 6 children "the Catholic Church has a lot to answer for".
I had to acquire sex education books to educate her myself, not an easy task for a 17-18 year old boy to do in the late 1950's, I must have done a pretty good job of it as I popped her cherry when we were both 18. We got married A week after she turned 21 (her parents would not let her get married untill she turned 21) we had our family when we were 28 and 30, she had her tubes tied after our second child for health reasons, hence all our sex since then has been bare back.
We were early 30's when we started socialising with an old school mate his wife and children who were around the same age as our children, it eventually came out that they were members of a nudist club and they invited us along for a visit, it surprised me when the wife agreed to go along and even more when she agreed to join up as full members.
Their was a lot of swinging going on through the club "most of it off club grounds at private parties", we were invited to some, without going into great detail we ended up joining the swinging scene when we were 35, her first ever other cock.
I had no idea just how big a Pandora's box I was opening, she took to the swinging lifestyle like a fish to water, we were into the swinging - swapping and M F M threesome scene for the next 35 + years on and off as family commitment's allowed, our last threesome was with a 53 year old guy we met in a sex chat room when we were 73, we are now late 70's, married 58 years and have no regrets.
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