What i did...
In my case, i had been asking the wife for many many years to do more daring things without success.
She surprised me 2 or 3 times (in 15 years) when there was a lot of alcohol involved and she would just act sexier or comply to a dare to walk to the mailbox naked and come back at like 3am.
Other than that, she is always a straight NO, and her mind is always too busy to even think about it.
After many years I took hints of what would make her want to do it.
- safe place
- no gawkers
- Not sexual
- She's not the only one showing
- somewhere where nobody knows her.
- She's not the hottest surrounded by grandmas and she's not the ugliest either.
I thought about it and then it hit me.... She's a runner. Let's do a nude 5k race in a nudist resort.
I gave her a blog with a report from a 30-something old girl, and presented it as something for the bucket list. My wife read it and said "sounds fun, we could do it"
So a few months later I enrolled ourselves in the race.
Then a few days before the race I told her and she freaked out, closed her eyes and said "let's do it".
We got there, checked-in in clothes and there were already several naked girls. So we went back to the car and got naked.
As we walked back to the starting area there were lots of people and nobody was looking at my wife. The focus was the race. So she felt safe.
She felt so comfortable that she ran faster than me and forgot that she was naked.
The feeling of seeing my wife naked infront of so many guys was strange but very exciting.
She liked it, but said that only like 20% were women.
She is not interested in doing it again unless there are more women.
I asked her if she would do it again if she came with some girl friends (one of them liked the idea) . She said "if you find one that wants to do it and she begs me enough, then i would."
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