Great thread!
Thanks for bringing this to the front guys.
Let me know if I'm the only one who has this specific problem.
Basically, I have a few male friends with hot wives in their early thirties, like mine. I would love nothing more than to casually suggest we show each other naked pics of our wives over some beers. No trading of actual pictures. Zero danger attached. Just a quick, fun study session of each other's beautiful wives!
I'd have no problem apologizing if I suggested it and he wasn't into it. I'd apologize right away if he intepreted it offensively.
But the reason I can't bring myself to do this with almost anyone is because of the chance he might say no, then go home and tell his wife, or another person in my circle, and word gets around.
Truthfully, I happen to think the caundalism fetish a fairly harmless one (though certainly not always). The problem is, I shutter to think of word getting around to mutual friends...that I'm a creepy pervert...when really I'm a nice fella who loves and respects women...but also happens to fetishize seeing and sharing their naked bodies (and recognizes and that sharing pictures of them non-consenually is ethically dubious --- but also the best, most fun thing eva!)
Ultimately, this is what keeps from sharing my wife pics with friends. Is it just me?
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