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Originally Posted by WallyTang
This past Friday night, I got confirmation that my wife's picture (that I showed you in my earlier post) is still making rounds. During a gathering of friends and fellow teachers at our house, a student-teacher currently assigned to my wife's tenth grade English classes had a few too many beverages and told me he has the picture. He was not in the original group who received it when the mishap occurred. He wouldn't come off who sent it to him, but he went as far as showing it to me on his phone, as proof, and admitted he frequently looks at it when "making love to his hand" (his words). I told him to enjoy but keep it hush-hush. I find it thrilling this 22 year old college kid ogles my 36 year old wife's naked body whenever he wants, especially given they work so close to each other every day. I haven't decided though if I should tell my wife. She was really turned on by the initial exposure, but she probably figured everyone deleted it after the accident. Now, there's no telling who all has it and are looking / "using it" whenever they please. Opinions, please... should I tell her about her assistant's admission?
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I confronted a somewhat similar issue with my sister, who is also a teacher. I stumbled across a pic on the Internet that I am 90% sure is her. Full frontal, face included.
Ok, so here's the big issue as I see it. If she's a teacher and you are in the US, she probably has a morals clause in her contract. Somebody might consider naked pictures of her floating around to be a violation of that clause and it could cost her her job. This is especially true if it gets loose among the students. Even if it isn't a violation of her morals clause, it could still really cause her problems if it gets loose in the student body.
I think she deserves to know that someone in the original group was indiscrete and that this has happened. It would be grossly unfair to leave her in ignorance so that someday this blindsides her. I told my sister for the same reason. She needs to know because of the threat to her job.
That assumes she needs or otherwise cares about her job. If she is not concerned about losing her job or having to find another one, the need is less imperative. But she would still deserve to know.