For me, it is multi-faceted. In the best order I can explain:
1. I like her being daring and confident enough to show off. Confidence, sexuality, and spontaneity are all huge turn ons.
2. I enjoy being a non-jealous husband and allowing others to see her. Often times I wish I had more close friends who would show off their wives in return. But enjoying my voyeuristic side, I think how it is nice to receive pics or views; so, I/we/she hope to provide that excitement to others.
3. I enjoy the responses she gets. Whether I/we/she get feedback when sharing her pics, when she trades pics, her receiving pics in return, someone seeing her in person, etc., it is all good dirty fun. She seems to enjoy the feedback, too. Whether sexy compliments or a guy showing that she made him hard, it gives her a turn on.
4. Taboo... Being too "normal" is boring for me. A little taboo with those you trust (or have anonymity with) is a bit liberating.
5. Trust. We trust each other to share nudes and stories with others. Others share nudes and stories with us. It is nice to have a common bond of dirty thoughts and actions with others you can trust an whom trust you.
Lengthy, but accurate. There is always more to expand on from experiences and desires, but this is my perspective of the primary reasons. Let me know where you relate.
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