Unless your partner is a natural exhibitionist, it's usually going to take a lot of flattery and instigation. "Why don't you wear that see-through top; your tits looks really great in them", for example. There also has to be a pay-off for them; like great sex afterwards. You want to boost their ego to its fullest extent.
That's how my "reserved" wife got in touch with her inner exhibitionist. Nudism was the avenue I chose to "help my wife along." I just kept telling her how great she looked naked, how other people would feel the same way; that she would be the "hottest chick around" and should be totally unashamed. At first she was like: "Oh stop; you're just BS'ing me..." But then she did give it a shot; and I did my best to make her feel real sexy about it. And after she got naked, I "rewarded" her that night with great sex.
I nurtured her confidence after that; and she became more and more comfortable with people seeing her naked at the resort. And she started experimenting with it on her own; like shaving and lying with her legs open. The positive attention she got reinforced her confidence and pushed her to go even further. She now enjoys being looked at naked to the point where she wants to be close to other nudists so she can get that validation.
There are many other ways besides nudism to accomplish this. You just have to find the avenue she feels most comfortable with.
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