On-Premises
Although it has been several years since my wife and I first visited an on premises club, I do recall that first evening we passed through those doors. A club north of Seattle, which has since closed down.
We had to call and make an appointment (was before the internet allowed for easier everything), as the owners of the club required all potential new members to attend. They provided a brief rundown of the rules, events and costs. Once they had gone through everything, we were given a tour of the entire facility before any of the guests arrived. Sure made things easier, knowing what was allowed and what was not.
They would provide a buffet style meal, water and soft drinks available, byob for any adult beverages, and entertainment. Tables were set up where you had an opportunity to meet new folks, enjoy your meal and enjoy a cold beverage of choice before the entertainment began. I do recall that music was always part of the schedule, but do think that an occasional comedian was brought in.
Playing was strictly forbidden in the area where meals were consumed and the dancing occurred. Pretty sure that there was some occasional groping and grinding, but for the most part that was reserved for the play areas.
Couples accounted for the vast majority of the guests. Single males were restricted to 1 per 10 couples. Single females were allowed in without restriction, although they were few and far between.
Back in the play area, there was a common area where all were allowed. Adjacent to that was an outdoor hot tub one way, open play room to the side and a video room another. Single males were allowed free access to this area on the main level. Up the stairs was reserved for couples, with several themed rooms available to play in. Some were open to all and any that seek access, some were for a single couple or select group to enter.
We found that during the course of the evening, we would run across many different personalities throughout the facility. Some folks that were a great conversation during dinner, enjoyed dancing but had no interest in swapping partners. Some that preferred to simply watch others, and enjoy their partner. While most couples (singles as well) were there for the sex, that wasn't the case for everyone.
Please don't expect that you will be seeing nothing but hard bodies banging wall to wall. What you will find is everyday next door neighbor type folks there to enjoy the pleasures that the naked flesh can provide. You will meet people that you absolutely enjoy hanging out with, and some that don't quite fit your taste. Go with an open mind, and enjoy your visit. It can and will be a phenomenal experience if you go in with no expectations and plenty of trust between you and your partner. Let loose and have fun, realizing that both you and your partner are there for the same thing.
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