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Originally Posted by Massguy70
My girl and I will be going to a swingers club in a couple of weeks. We've looked into them, the layouts and watched videos on a couple of porn sites so we have a general feel for what to expect but.. what should we really expect? The place we are going to has a DJ and bar (BYOB). There are playrooms in the back. Seems that it might be mostly couples. They also allow single guys. Do people play on the dance floor and bar area or is that only allowed in the back? I like seeing her get attention but I'll definitely play with other woman if there is opportunity. Any advice on how not to look like newbies? Unless people like taking newbies under their wings, or between their legs lol!
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I have written before about an ex gf and I enjoying swingers fun in and out of clubs. My experiences are purely UK based and we visited about 5/6 different establishments over our time together
The clubs do vary in design and guest expectations although we always took advantage of talking to the (usually a ) girl on reception to understand how each operated
One of the earliest was, for the individual rooms ( which varied from one to two or three big beds)...if the door was closed , do not just walk in, ...door half open was a signal you could watch ( and possibly get an invite) and door fully open meant access was open to all to join in.
My suggestions to you as first timers ( and presuming both of you are fully open to the concept and potential) are...,
Set any rules before you go,
Dress sexily but not outrageously ( helps get you into 'the mood')
Sit, have a drink or two and just watch how things go.
Even if you don't go any further, the experience will give you confidence and grounding for the next visit
Take it steady and enjoy...let us know how it goes.