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Originally Posted by anonjohn
Since this is in "non-fiction".
Perhaps a minority of wives/gfs might eventually become turned on and thank you for the sexy surprise, even if this was done without their prior consent.
In most cases I suspect that she will feel that you have betrayed her trust and feel violated - due to lack of consent - "yes means yes and no means no". Split-up, divorce? Police called? as this is a criminal offence in many places.
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I do agree with you in the most part but there are all types of women. And even for the same woman there are rules that only apply sometimes and other times it's anything goes. I've talking about this before but a woman's boundary isn't a straight line, it's an undulating line. Sometimes we men just don't know what women are thinking or why they think it. I'll give you an example.
I once flashed my wife to a passerby by lifting up her rash guard and flashing her pussy to the bloke. I thought I'd got the green light to do it, but signals were crossed and I wasn't given the green light. She was very surprised and got quite upset with me and I got a bollocking. BUT... back at our hotel when we were still talking about it, and she was still annoyed at me and being quite stern, something happened. Bgasically out of nowhere she decided that she would get nude and display herself in a cross figure against the balcony sliding door for all the cars going past. I didn't ask her to do that or even broach the topic! Haha. It was the last thing on my mind to be honest. I couldn't believe she wanted to do it. And she let me take photos! Then she asked if I wanted her to go on to the balcony and she would pose naked at the edge of the balcony facing me and the on coming traffic. Go figure...
I think I'm not bad at reading what is going on with my wife, but in this case I still have no idea. Was she really angry at me? Or was it just initial shock and some disappointment then later exciting, but she didn't want to let me know that? Why would she do that if she wasn't feeling something sexy? Of course I've never asked her because she'll just say she did it because she knew I wanted her to do it.
It really makes absolutely no sense that she'd do that if she was truly upset with me. In saying that she didn't smile when she was doing it she was quite serious. It was as if she was proving a point to me.
So yeah. I agree with you, but there are exceptions I think. And my wife is one of those women where No can mean Yes, but I have to know when it means Yes. It's something she really gets off on.