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Originally Posted by CaraZee
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It made my heart beat so fast and I know it’s kind of wrong, but it’s also really exciting. He’s staying here for almost two weeks and this is only day one. What should I do next?
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Plausible deniability, it's what you should do next I think.
My wife and I lurk this forum as well, she's well aware of my jam (read my post history). I'm so thrilled to read about another couple on here.
Now, I'm biased (skirts are my thing) but I think 'accidentally' showing lower body is more believable than showing your tits (you would notice, right). How about a choice of clothing that kind of makes it hard to stay hidden, or easy to choose to show something. An obscenely short skirt or dress is kinda obvious, but maybe you're 'known' for wearing those. Otherwise, do you have any low seats or sofas that are hard to get up from, or maybe you have a cat or dog that you can squat to pet? Maybe spill something in the kitchen and squat to pick it up. Maybe start wearing a long t-shirt (that's it) that easily covers everything (it's your house after all) but becomes.... questionable as a cover when you reach for the overhead cupboards, or when you sit at the kitchen table?
What if he instigates the situation where you could be exposed? Do you want to be prepared for that? Please hear me out. You come prepared, pantyless, braless, anything, but looking decent. Will he set up a situation (it's almost instinctive, trust me) to get you to show something? Would you spread your legs a little if he drops a fork at the diner table?
If it's going to be clothes-driven test your outfit beforehand. Know what you're showing. And when the moment is there, don't look at yourself, don't adjust (at all, this takes some courage), don't act like you know what is visible. Test how far your skirt or t-shirt rises when you part your legs. Know how far you have to bend before your lips become visible. Know how far you need to reach over your head before your dress/t-shirt rises higher than your pubic area.
He sounds like he might point it out to you, will you act surprised? And then cover it up? If you cover up will he speak up again, or will he learn his lesson? Or are you planning on making his breakfast in the full nude at some point, ditching the whole plausible deniability thing?
I'm directing a bit, but you where asking for advise, hope it's ok. Let me/us know what you're up to.
Ps. I also love hotsxysweet 's idea. I don't mean to blame, but you kinda should have been pantyless
.But I also get the challenge it creates, how to top that without presenting yourself outright. How to Not make him think you're doing this on purpose because of the breakfast-thing. Well, see above
. I've seen plenty of stuff (MIL, SIL), if I where to seek a motive I'm sure I'd find one; and yet even I know there wasn't one. He'll probably find a way to rationalize your behaviour/exposure as an accident, if you present it that way. Many men are wired to explain away how you weren't aware, or something. Defense-mechanism-by-proxy. It's why you don't see men in skimpy clothing in public (in general), we don't have excuses for that, and somehow women do. Use that.