I have several ladies with whom I have mutually masturbated. It's a nice kick, and an alternative to other activities. It's been easier over the last 20 years, as people who you meet on-line, often you don't have access to other types of release. So, after flirting, and showing your parts, it's sort of a natural progression. Most of the time it leads to meeting them, and having sex.
The first time it happeed, was a long time ago. I had a "normal" gf, who was quite attractive liked all the normal sexual activities. One day, just as she came out of the shower, she got a call, and sat down on the couch to talk. She got engaged in the call, turns out it was a gf telling about her experiences on date the night before, and before long she was idilly playig with her nipples, and then her pussy. She got rubbing it pretty good, clearly a bit excited. Then, she finished the call, and realized I was sitting across from her, watching her, with my cock out and very excited. She got a bit embarrassed, but eventually said something to the effect that I see you liked that. Long story short, we continued to sit opposite each other, and brought ourselves to mutual climaxes. Now, clearly she enjoyed "playing with the man in the boat", but she really seemed to get into looking at my cock as it grew, and grew and grew and eventually errupted. This became a regular thing for us, and led her into exploring her exhibitionist tendencies. She absolutely loved to make sure guys got to see down blouses when we were out, and took to wearing cut off jeans with no panties and making sure the guys got a look. This always made her wet as hell, and led to some world class fucking when we got back home, or even just to the car. A couple of times, it led to her jilling off in front of a few of my friends (with a little encouragement from me and a bit of beer).
Anyway, I came to the conclusion that as long as it's approached gently, a lot of women get excited if I start jacking off while looking at them. It's particularly effective to start "round 2" after we have fucked. Several even grow to want it as a routine activity, although it more often leads to fucking/sucking than to just cumming for each other.
I never have had the good fortune of watchig anyone jilling off that didn't know I was there. I think that would be interesting.
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