[Handiwerker]

My experience of swinging/swapping lifestyle (in the UK) started with an ex, Amy, just a few years ago now
We got together when we were both 22 and lasted for about 30 months when we split for something not connected with swinging.
Our sex life was great from the start, we got to talk freely about fantasies and one time when watching internet porn, Amy admitted that a particular 4some video was really turning her on. We developed this into our sex action, talking as if it was and would happen but didn’t do anything particular to push it until during an especially good session, mention was made of ‘sex club’ or ‘sex parties’.

We both spent time investigating the possibilities and eventually decided on a swingers club advertised near Bournemouth which seemed to fit the bill and indeed was hosting a ‘Uni Night’ a few weeks later. One of our considerations was we thought the swingers lifestyle was more an older ‘thing’, so the likelihood of young students more in our age group appealed. Since we lived a distance away we booked a hotel for the weekend and travelled down arriving Friday afternoon and proceeded to prepare ourselves for the club later that evening. We’d thought a lot about how Amy should dress for this new experience and decided on heels and barely black hold ups and a pretty bra and thong set, under a zipped shortish leather skirt and lacy top. She did look fab and we almost thought of a shag before the club !

It was a bring your own drink club (but they also had a pay bar) so we got a couple of bottles of wine and glasses and arrived at the club not really knowing what would happen. The receptionist was a pretty student type and explained everything…we could just chill out in one of the lounges , use the sauna and pool and any of the fun (bed) rooms were free to use whenever. She gave us a key for a locker to leave personal stuff and clothes It didn’t seem overly busy but we were pleased to see most looked like 18- mid 20’s which relaxed us a lot. We thought ok, let’s take one bottle and sit and chill in one of the lounges and see what transpires.

It wasn’t too long before we started a conversation with a couple ( we discovered named Jo and Sam 19 and 21) who were similarly virgins at this sort of event. I must say the sexual tension was rising especially as we could see partially into a couple of the bedrooms where obviously others were in various stages of sex ( and indeed within the lounge itself). Since we had got on, we thought…what now?... I think Sam said words to the effect , let’s go for it before the beds get filled . We found one room with two big queen size beds and both were free free, walked in and Sam and I got undressed to boxers ( and the slippers the club had provided) while the girls took our clothes to the locker room and shortly came back dressed in their lingerie….wow they both looked great and I certainly couldn’t help a little rise to the occasion! Amy had a sexy tan after our holidays a few weeks before and Jo was in black bra and panties , hold ups ( good choice for Amy too).. They were giggling and said they had had several offers and a few touches from boys on the way back to us This increased my horniness, even just looking at Amy and she whispered about how she was so excited too..

Seems strange now but when we all got on the bed we sort of agreed and shook hands (lol) about ‘well, here we are, whatever goes down as long as we are all ok about it’

(There is so much more I could add about that evening but whilst composing this I realise I have already gone into more words than I anticipated)

What an evening it turned out to be… Amy had shagged and been filled up with cum by Sam , also some uni boy had nearly cum inside her and then a random boy empties his balls over her and Jos faces. I’d filled Amy and also shot into Jos mouth and then ate out some unknown uni girl And none of us were drunk!... well drunk with the excitement of it all

We all decided enough was enough and went for showers, meeting up and finishing the second bottle we never had in the bedroom. We offered for them to come back to our hotel but sensibly decided it was already late and we needed to consider everything we had all experienced . But we met the next lunchtime , spent the Saturday afternoon doing touristy stuff and then all back to our hotel…but that is another story.

We stayed in contact with Sam and Jo and occasionally would travel and meet up and replicate in part, that initiation evening. Amy and I also tried another couple of swingers clubs although neither matched to the exciting first time. What we did however was, usually during our holidays abroad, meet and connect with other couples in our age range and using a drunken night as an excuse, drop swinging and swapping into the conversations…. Happily many such situations ended up with the four of us in bed. Indeed, one couple we met and staying in touch with, introduced a third couple when we met at a midway hotel for our two monthly swinging sessions back in UK,so that was a particularly hectic and fun weekend.

Details of those times and the latter situations when we would use Tinder to get couples ( rare) or single lads for Amy to enjoy while I watched are maybe things I could relate another time. The disappointment is that after Amy, none of my GFs would be on the same swinging/swapping wavelength… yes of course, me and ex’s got on and had fun but I always remember those years fondly

I have gone on far too long and in way too much detail so had better conclude briefly. But doing this has brought back so many fun sexy memories. They say you should never regret what you have done, just what you haven’t….so I am so glad Amy and I and the several others we met, had the safe , happy, horny and non-complicated times we did

I have attached a photo of Amy from the holiday we went on just before that first swingers club evening, so you can appreciate why she got the looks and more that night