I think it's pretty ironic that people walk into a thread with such an obvious theme and then were somehow surprised or offended by it.
I think the most on-point mentions were ones that you find frequently in porn and in stories that are supposed to be huge or common turn ons and yet the person posting in this thread finds them to be a turnoff.
I like giving facials, and the first time that I gave one, the other person requested it in the heat of the moment. It was a pretty heady, spontaneous (and explosive) moment. But I totally get that a lot of people don't like them and it doesn't bother me as long as they don't try to define for me why me and a partner might be into it.
Things I don't like that are common themes in porn or even in photos:
1. Really obvious implants
2. Forcible fellatio that makes the other person gag, or eye's water, or look uncomfortable
3. Spitting on anything. Even as lube
4. Butt plugs - totally mystified by that one
5. Insulting or calling the other person names during sex
6. Any sex that looks mechanical or cold
I realize that both participants might really be into the above activities, but they just don't do anything for me. I wonder if Tinder or Craigslist (or whatever) leave a section for stuff like this? It would seem to help potential partners align with each other sexually.
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