I had a similar but even worse miss: I turned down a FFM threesome!
It was first year of uni and I was going out with my first long-term GF. She was also the girl I'd lost my virginity with.
She was living in student residence with three other girls, one of whom was an older exchange student from the US. I think this lady was at least a third year, as opposed to my GF and the others all being first years. She was a bit of a rocker, I think she modeled her look on Gwen Stefani from No Doubt (this was the late 90s.). She also wasn't shy. She told them all she was a lesbian when they first met her but, later in the first term, revealed that she also liked guys too - by bringing home a random one and having such loud sex with him that she woke up everyone! She also got her clit pierced that term and kept her housemates informed about how it had been done, how painful it was in the immediate aftermath and how much fun it eventually became...
Cutting to the chase, some time in the Spring of that year my girlfriend told me that she and the American had been up late the night before, chatting and sharing a bottle of wine. Our relationship got discussed and the other girl ultimately told my gf that she thought I was cute and, if we ever wanted to try out a threesome, she was offering herself!
Unlike the lady I am now married to, that girlfriend never expressed any interested in other girls. However, we were first years and she basically said "Why not?" and that she'd be willing to try it out.
And I, being a paranoid 18 year old worried about everything sex-related, was the one who said "No, I wouldn't be comfortable with that." :-(
To say I've regretted it ever since would be an understatement.
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