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Originally Posted by Nakedeve
I guess this thread is aimed at the men and woman on OCC and probably every other person posting on an adult online site out there. Are you comfortable showing your face or the face of your partner in pictures and videos where you/her/him is naked or involved in a sexual act?
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Good question! For starters, I thinking the "showing the face" question has got to be posed to the person being photographed first and foremost. As much as the idea of sharing my partner fully exposed online (face included) turns me on, I'd never do it to her (or anyone else) without their explicit permission. On the other hand, I do think it's fair that your husband has a vote in the matter too. Heaven forbid you were ever exposed in a major way, he'd be roped into the situation too.
Unfortunately, I think the only real answer is that "it depends." If your family would laugh it off if they ever found out, then who really cares? If it would crush them beyond measure...might want to think twice, lol. Personally, here's what I think. You mentioned you were an artist. The culture (and psychology) of female nude sharing is very much about voyuerism, reality, and amateurism. I think that a relatively "safe" way to show yourself off (face included) is to post artful nudes of yourself. Professional looking, rather than amateur "I'm sending these to you but never show anyone" type pics. Men still enjoy looking at artful nudes, but I don't imagine they'd run the risk of traveling far and wide, simply because the taboo-ness of voyuerism is stripped away, and it's just another nude of a model. I checked out some of your pics. First off, your'e a total babe. Congrats
. Second of all, your black and white photos do give off that vibe, so I think you're already on the right track, at least in terms of staying fairly low-key.
The other thing to consider (quite frankly) is how attractive the person being shared is. You're hot, so you're in a bit more danger of being shared.
At the end of the day, I'd suggest two options. 1. Stick to artsy, erotic photos, rather than "girl next door" amateur photos...show your face on a side angle rather than straight on. 2. Really expose your body, be naughty (if that's your thing) and censor just a littleeee bit...like blurring your eyes. The chances of anyone ever discovering you are really, really minuscule. Even if they did, they'd have no reason to assume it's you.
Anyway...I realize you might not have been asking for personal advice, lol. Just thoughts.