[pball2295]

My fiance is beautiful, open, fun, and independent. When we met she had only been with 4 or 5 men, only one of which was a multi-year relationship.

A month or two into having sex with her, I began testing her boundaries - wanting to see how dirty she was comfortable getting. I started by gently pushing her head into a pillow while fucking her from behind once. Another time, as she gave me blowjob, I held her ponytail and pressed my cock into her mouth just a bit further.

She didn't say anything after those two incidences, but it was clear that she wasn't sure what to make of them. Don't get my wrong...she loved sex, but it was more like holding onto my back during missionary sex, getting pounded, and yelling things like "fuck me harder!" Sex like that was fun for our first few months, but it was a little vanilla for me.

Eventually, I decided I needed to up the ante a bit.

One night we watched a movie and had a lot to drink. I started fucking her on our couch. After she was revved up and sweaty, I slowly brought my hand from her right tit and up to her neck. I softly grasped my fingers around it. She paused for a moment, and looked up at me with big, vulnerable eyes. She seemed slightly confused and scared.

...Oh shit, I thought. I let go and immediatly said, "Sorry babe, I was just caught up in the moment."

She looked at me and softly said..."It's okay...I mean, if you want to."

I smiled and put my hand back around her throat, squeezing a bit harder this time. As I did, I could feel her pussy fill up.

Now we were getting somewhere.

As I fucked her deeply and slowly, I whispered in her ear..."Do you like being choked hunny? It's okay if you do, I'll be gentle."

She whispered into my ear, "You love me, right?"

I said "of course I do."

"Then yes," She said, "choke me."

This act was the beginning of my fiance understanding that it's okay to be an independent, tough leader in her personal life -- and extremely submissive in the bedroom.

Over the next few months, I eased her into several different different acts. Today, she's nothing less than a full-fledged submissive sl*t for me. Here's a list of what she enjoys now.

- Now, she only ocassionally wants me to say sweet things to her. She much prefers phrases like "you dirty fucking wh*r*." and, "my personal little fucksl*t" during sex.

- She begs me to choke her. She especially loves this when I'm on top of her. She says it's because she feels so overpowered by me, but still safe. She also says that she thinks the first time I choked her (the story above) was such a turn on for her, that she's able to revisit the feeling of letting go for the first time.

- She loves being spanked. Often times, when we are changing positions to doggy style, I'll grab her by the pony tail, and spank her ass until it's red. She'll squeel so loud, I sometimes have to reminder her of the neighbors.

- Speaking of which, she really enjoys having her hair pulled. Specifically, she loves it when I grab her by the hair and lead her to a different room. This one is extra hot for me too.

- My personal favorite...and the reason I'll never, ever break up with her (besides the fact that I love her, haha), is that she absolutely LOVES being face fucked. I can't tell you how much of a joy this has been for me. Usually, I'll take her by the hair, make her kneel in front of.a mirror, and I'll fuck her throat like it's her pussy. But the physical sensation isn't even the best part. The best part is that she knows I get off on her gagging and making gurgling sounds. She loves it since I love it, and she loves serving me, so she's constantly gasping for air and choking on my dick.

So yeah! I don't know if any of that qualifies as "teaching" as much as it is "revealing" to her who she's always been sexually...but needless to say I have it pretty good.