Oh man. Tough subject. Yes, very very early in our marriage. Her boss was generally a creep. He probably wouldn't last too long in his position with today's atmosphere. He would be a walking liability.
However, he crossed paths with my wife at a very opportune time for himself. Money was not there at all for us.
I had just got laid off. And a few months later, she got a performance review that had her crying. He said he could pull a few strings if she was going to be a team player. She decided to be a team player. It took years and a her being at a new job for her to finally tell me what happened. It left me numb and furious initially. I think her attitude about it was healthy, she more or less looked at the experience as a few bad one night stands, rather than a victimizing experience. I feel like she would be more than justified in taking the latter position.
She has even found a way to make it erotic occasionally through role playing boss/employee. I don't get what her kink is about replaying the scenario, but i do enjoy playing her boss in the situation. Its helped us turn her past sexual experience into like a sleezy harlequin romance novel we both can enjoy together.
|