I think most women shy away from this kind of thing--or at least talking about it--because of what some call "sl*t shaming". I agree that they are probably more common than most think and that they are much closer to you than you think.
I only know one woman who confesses to this kind of thing. A former co-worker and a friend for many years. Once when she was between men, she picked up five businessmen in a restaurant bar and went back with them to their nearby hotel. She also told me once that another time when she was between men that she got horny so she got dressed up and went down to a local adult bookstore with a theater and "took care of it". She didn't tell me what all went on, but I'm willing to bet she wasn't handing out candy to small orphaned children. So, there is some potential there for multiple men. Wouldn't shock me to find out there are other stories she never told me. I know that she and her then boyfriend used to go to house parties.
Indeed, think there's a fair chance that any woman who is a swinger has at least tried it a time or two.
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