That was a little weird about the text and photo. Most people don't give their Ex the ability to bring harm to their marriage like that. Would he follow up with some weird thing like contacting your husband or blackmailing you for another assignation. So strange you did THAT part of it.
Otherwise I'm happy for the two of you having crazy sex. Crazy sex is always a good thing.
Re his style of love making toward the end: was that entirely out of the blue in inconsistent with your former style of love making? If he established a new fetish style since college, he should have told you or asked you before going in that direction. Even subtle comments like, "Can I treat you like a sl*t victim?" or similar, would have satisfied this.
I once had a blast from the past experience, and she asked me if she could humiliate me and I said yes. What I mean is, I was prepared for it. He should have laid SOME kind of ground work for it all.
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