You meet someone who turns out to be your wife/gf former BF. He mentions that he has photos of your significant other, taken before you were together. He offers to send you copies in exchange for similar recent photos.
Would you decline the trade, only trade for some of the photos or trade for everything?
Depends on the ex.
Two of them are a$$holes that I wouldn't give the time of day to and one died in Afganistan as a private contractor.
BUT...
Two others are good guys that we talk to, to this day. Unfortunately, neither had photos of her until I sent them some (with her permission), so they made out but I didn't.
The one who lost his life overseas had photos and videos of her/them which she absconded with when they broke up years before he died. She later gave the collection to me,

which is a story I wrote about here a long time ago.