For the first date with a woman who became a GF for almost a year, I took her to a nice restaurant and then to a play after work on a Friday in the big city. We were seated on the aisle, and just as the lights started to dim for the first act, her hand comes across my lap and she starts rubbing and fondling. I was not expecting that, and slowed things down until it got dark enough that people across the aisle could not see well enough to really know what was going on. It was enjoyable but distracting; I really wanted to see the play, but somehow I soldiered on...

At the end of the evening I took her home and we were able to continue in a slightly more relaxed manner. I got back to my place some time the next afternoon. And so began a hot, sex filled relationship. Oh to be mid-20's again....