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We met as swingers in her home state of Alabama... with the group she was involved with in her late 20s at their private party..


I watched her fucking and sucking and enjoying herself w a big smile all night long.... the most contact I had was passing conversation over drinks...….


I asked her friend a few days later if I could call her.... she agreed... we went out and just had vanilla fun...no sex...


But the point of the matter was, I was very interested in dating her... She wouldn't have sex w me for 3 months worth of dating, because she wanted to make sure I wasn't just a swing sex player for her sexual attributes...


When we did finally have sex it was just normal sex fun...… well we got married a little over a yr later and living the swing life together...