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My experience is obviously from a different perspective, but when I was married my ex wanted to go to one for a similar reason as you. I was completely okay with that as I'm a very open-minded sexual person and thought it could be fun to do. We continued going a couple times a month, even going to "couples areas" where he could receive the same treatment through a hole while watching me at the same time. When we did that, we would always wait another 15 minutes after everyone was finished to allow the other couple to leave first. (For the same reason your wife brought up) it seems one time the other couple couple had the same thought we did. We ended up walking by the door to the adjoining room they were in just as they were walking out. Turned out, we knew them in real life.
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