Just wondering
If he showed you photos of other couples posing nude, did it occur that he would probably show others your photos as well? Did you discuss this with your wife before or after he shot the photos? What would be her reaction to others seeing her naked? How do you feel about others seeing both of you nude? Have you shown the final product to any one else?
Did you give him permission to share your photos?
We've had several nudes of us shot by several different photographers, all who were our friends and business associates. All have assured that they would be discrete as to who they showed them to. We trusted their discretion.
One particular photographer did have a display of my wife's nudes hanging in his place of business and had a portfolio sitting on a table for people to browse through. It was shot in an outdoor setting in a wooded area by a river. It showed my wife totally naked, full frontal and face showing. It was very tastefully done and was on display for at least 6 months before he rearranged his works.
Of the several hundred photos he shot that day he had probably 12 on his walls, ranging from 4x6 inches to 24x36 inches. There were around 50 to 60 photos in the portfolio. In all it was clear that she was completely naked. He still has all the original negatives and digital copies. I was not with her that time, my wife told me that there was 3 male assistants working with him that day when he shot the photos.Even though we have seen probably 250 photos, I'm sure that I haven't seen all the images he shot of her.
My wife was quite embarrassed at first, not about the pictures, but that the possibility of some of our friends or business associates seeing her nudity. No one ever mentioned to us that they had seen and recognized her. I know the possibility of someone we know seeing the photos and recognizing her is rather high because he has a reputation as a good photographer and has a highly successful business.
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