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Originally Posted by bomba
Little awkward wording, not much space in thread titles.
Basically, if your wife/girlfriend is pretty OK with getting cum in her mouth (whether she swallows or not, but especially if she swallows)... ...is she ALSO ok if you want to finish in her mouth, even when she's NOT blowing you?
Several possible examples...
- She gives you a handjob, and she finishes you in her open mouth?
- You jack yourself off (masturbate), and she lets you finish in her open mouth?
- She lets you pull out from PIV sex, and finish in her open mouth?
- Any/all of the above? Anything else similar I'm not forgetting.
And in any of the above cases, does she / will she swallow? Or another way of thinking of it: Is she OK ENOUGH with getting cum in her mouth, that she'll let that happen in ways OTHER THAN her blowing you? Whether or not she 'likes' cum per se, she's pretty much "really ok" getting cum in her mouth, beyond the most obvious way that usually happens.
Sort of the most simple example of cum-play, and not very complicated, usually pretty quick and simple.
Is this on the menu for any of you? I've been working my way towards this with my wife of nearly 20 years. Not there yet, but she will let me finish in her mouth when she blows me now (only just within the last year). Hoping for more eventually, but we may or may not ever get there. |
I can feel the desperate frustration in your post!
I'm fortunate in this respect that my wife always swallow. She's never once spat it out.
As for your list above, nothing is a problem for her, it's just a normal part of sex. Although we never do hand jobs anymore because if she can do a hand shandy, she can do a BJ and I think I speak for most men when I say that a BJ is far superior to a HJ. For me, HJs are mainly for when you can't get a BJ or for a bit of warm up before entry.
Her number 1 choice is for me to come inside her - she loves that primal feeling.
Her 2nd choice is to swallow - often looks at me with a sly grin after.
3rd is splashed on her face. She told me she likes the sensation just before she knows the cum is going to hit her face. We also take photos of this one every time we do it (not often, maybe 2 or 3 times a year).
4th is across her tits. If we do this, she'll rub it in if she's still feeling horny.
She isn't interested in it on her arse or back. If she can't see it or feel it, then it's not interesting for her.
(we tried anal and she likes the idea of anal but the reality is that she's too tight)
I hope you can get your wife to swallow soon! Some tips: have a few drinks (for her so she feels relaxed), and watch what you eat in the previous 24 hours.
What makes your semen taste better
Sweeten It Up: wheatgrass, cinnamon, lemon, peppermint, pineapple and parsley all sweeten the taste of your semen.
Celery: it's high in Vitamin C which will help flush out the salty flavour.
Cranberries: they actually help balance the pH levels in your semen, making for a better taste.
Milk, Meat and fatty foods = not good.