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Originally Posted by clairwill
I was just wondering how old Marcella was, as you mentioned she's still a virgin... how come that at 24 she still has no boyfriend?
And Linda being 34, how come she had only you? You are many years together?
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Originally Posted by nectcouple
I was wondering how long you and Linda have been together...just out of curiosity.
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Linda and I are married now for 10 years (we married late summer 2009), and we have been together for 13 years (we met in 2006). She was only 21 years old when we met, and she did not have a serious boyfriend before me.
Marcella has actually quite a tempor. She can be very outspoken and direct, and I think guys usually shy away because of that. Marcella and us were members of a group of loose friends a couple of years ago, and we got to know her quite well during that time. That's why we know her well enough to know she doesn't always mean the very direct way in which she expresses herself, and I know how to handle her. In Dutch we have a saying for girls like that: "That kitten should not be handled without gloves". Don't know how that translates correctly to English, but I suppose you know what I mean. The fact she dresses very conservative doesn't help either.
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Originally Posted by Omega88
As Marcella seems to be very sheltered and inexperienced, having Linda take the lead in getting Marcella to relax and enjoy life may work better. And have Linda lead by example [and you complimenting Linda in front of Marcella telling her how hot / sexy she looks, how much more comfortable she must be, etc.]: short skirts / dresses, leaving buttons on tops undone so more of her cleavage can be seen, braless, sexy sheer knicker and bras, etc. Maybe Marcella could go shopping with Linda and Linda could get Marcella to try on and buy some sexy new clothes. The age difference may actually help with this. Use the same baby steps you did with Linda, two steps forward and one step back was the phrase you used back then. Would guess Marcella may resist at first, but you have to know inside she is wanting to do more and experince the thrills that she sees Linda enjoy - and your reactions [and others!] to how sexy Linda is when she has fun. The summer heat is your friend to get Marcella to shed her inhibitions and excess clothing! And keep helping Linda explore her own adventures!  |
Thanks for your compliments! I think you are right it can be an advantage Linda is turning into an exhibitionst, since she could show Marcella it's 'normal' to dress more sexy and reveal more skin in public. We actually talked to Marcella about this the last time we met and I openly suggested to her she should wear more sexy clothes if she wanted a boyfriend. I told her literally that "man are very visual and like to look at a woman's body". Marcella reacted by saying she actually dressed sexy when going on a date, but I doubt that she really does that (by a man's standard) and I hope my words will have some effect.
Linda is fairly used to going out without a bra (except if we visit family), and Marcella must have noticed Linda normally doesn't were a bra. As you all know her nipples really stand at attention if she is cold or aroused, and they will very much poke through her top. It's impossible not to notice that. I don't know if Marcella registered that fact contiously, but will try to bring up the subject if the opportunity arrizes.
Tomorrow we will probably visit her again, because she has a larger pool on her balcony
. I do hope both girls will once again we a bikini, because it's quite a sight to have 'm both in front of me like that.
