[Erotictimes]

Her first time experiencing BDSM, this was one of my favorite and hottest moments of all time.

Two years ago, March of 2018 my wife (we'll call her D) and I were invited to a kinky birthday party weekend. The guest of honor (we'll call him Rich) was turning 50 and a group of about 15 swinger-kinkster friends were coming together in a very large ski vacation home in the Northeast to celebrate.We had met the birthday boy and his awesome wife only about a month earlier at a hotel takeover for swingers. Ordinarily a hotel takeover would not be our thing, it was a fluke that we were chatting with this couple on a swinger website and agreed to meet them there. The four of us ended up hanging out privately at the event and getting along really well. Although nothing much happened that night other than seeing floggers and paddles and watching a little rope play for the first time, we had found some cool new friends and a week later received an invite to this birthday party in the mountains.

So D can be a bit self conscious and sometimes a bit of jealousy pokes through when we dabble in this new hobby of playing with others. For a few weeks leading up to this party her nerves were up and down. Very excited to learn a little bit more about BDSM from our new friends, she was as nervous as she was excited. What if other girls were hotter, were her outfits good enough (she spent a few hundred bucks on sexy clothes just for this), would she be in the mood to "full swap" (which was still very new to us) and would she be ok seeing me with others?

The day finally came and we packed up around noon Friday and headed North for the weekend. It was a several hour ride, a clear but very cold day in early March. On the ride up D's anxiety was elevated. Of course we are both excited, having been into swinging for about 18 months with a handful of different experiences to date. I am not the type to be nervous or anxious, just rolling with the flow in just about any environment describes me well. So I was a little taken back but ok when she made me promise on the drive that we would have no sexual contact with others for this trip. Truth be told, I was a little bummed about that idea but in the end considered it par for our course. I knew full well we could have crazy erotic and sexy times being around others while only actually engaging with each other. I saw the outfits she packed - corsets, lace lingerie, mini skirts she would probably not wear in public. I knew a house full of people dressed the same way would be fun in any event.
I did make HER clearly promise back to me the same thing though, even if I was just being a little spiteful when I repeated her idea back to her. "Just so we are clear" I said "you are saying there is to be zero sexual contact of any kind with others this weekend - for either of us". "Are you sure that's what you want?" and she replied "Yes, we barely only know two people here and I don't want that kind of pressure".

I should mention that I have always been the less apprehensive side of the team. One of the things we discovered as we worked through some of the hiccups of ethical non-monogamy is that we need to have and respect rules - always. And along those lines so long as we are always unconditionally honest and respectful with one another, our rules don't have to be reciprocal. We may have different ideas of what is cool and what we don't like but tit-for-tat is a destructive methodology that really just erodes what we're trying to experience.

Anyways, we arrived that afternoon and were really impressed with what we saw! This was an amazing ski house with a large stone fireplace, indoor hot tub off the living room, vaulted ceilings, nine bedrooms, and a large finished common area in the basement (which is where the juicy parts took place). We were the last ones to arrive but still had our own bedroom - a private room over the garage with a large pull-out bed and foozeball and air hockey table. It was kind of away from all the other rooms which was cool in case we needed to chill quietly. it took me a half an hour to unload the truck - food, coolers, suitcases, ski gear in case we wanted to on Saturday.

We grabbed cocktails and Rich & his wife gave us a tour & introduced us to everyone within a few minutes of settling in. There was some of the coolest and most unusual porn playing on the TV over the bar with many super sexy BDSB driven group sex scenes. We met six really cool couples and three single girls. It was hard to tell who was into what, all we knew is that everyone was very open minded and into some combination of swinging, BDSM, and kink/fetish. Looking back now I can still say this was a really incredible group of sexy, well grounded people. To this day we are glad to call all of them our friends.

Enough background - on to the story. Rich had taken a shine to D when we met at the swingers hotel party. I am a really lucky man as she is a 5'3" 135lb blonde with a rock solid ass from working out. Super cute 34C, a very erotic mind, and as we had recently learned she can be a bit of a submissive masochistic brat in the presence of alpha men.
We had a couple of cocktails and some snacks, and I think D had a hit off a joint somewhere as well. Everyone was in very "relaxed" outfits at this time, there were a few corsets, some sheer tops with nothing underneath, etc. A few of the guys were wearing kilts. At about 6pm D and I went upstairs to our room. She changed out of a tight pair of jeans with sweater into a tight faux-leather vinyl miniskirt and a thin cami type tank top. All black, no bra or underwear. We returned and each grabbed another cocktail (probably our third) and were getting to know everyone on the couches in front of the fire.

Rich pulled me aside and asked if he could "show D the dungeon downstairs". I said absolutely, and hinted that she might enjoy a few minutes with a paddle or a flogger. He had introduced this to us at that swingers party when we met and she was really interested in learning more. D asked if I wanted to come with her, and I declined which I am sure made her heart flutter a bit. We are still to this day a same room couple when we play in any fashion, so it was really unusual for me to allow her to be alone. D was comfortable and definitely onboard so I thought it would be cool to let things flow. They grabbed their drinks and went downstairs alone.

About 10 minutes later I thought I would walk downstairs to make sure everything was cool. This "Dungeon" was the coolest thing! No regular lights were on. You walk down a carpeted set of split-level stairs which were lined with battery tea lights on every other stair.An EDM type playlist was going at a medium volume. At the bottom the stairs opened up to a 20' x 30' room lit with a black light and something like a rotating color disco ball in the corner. There was a bathroom and three bedrooms off this room, but the room had a Saint Andrews cross, padded spanking bench, massage table, Sybian, and all kinds of kinky toys laying around. What a wild set-up!
I didn't enter the dimly lit room, but stopped on the bottom stair. Rich was about 10' away from me and had D kneeling on the spanking bench. They were both facing me. He was behind her, had her vinyl skirt pulled up around her waist and was gently massaging her naked ass with a leather flogger. D was in another place, lost in the music and loving every minute of it. She was looking down at the floor so she did not see me. I gave Rich a thumbs up and quietly turned and walked back upstairs.

I sat on the couch and chatted drinking my beer for what felt like an hour, but about 10 minutes later I just had to go take another look at what was going on downstairs. When I turned the corner on the stairs I saw D still kneeling on this sawhorse-like padded spanking bench and Rich now with his back to me. I stepped into the room and off to the side of the bench and saw my wife sucking the birthday boy's cock like a porn star! He was holding her pony tail with one hand, D was kneeling on this bench with her skirt and tank top wrapped around her waist like a belt. She had pulled his boxers down just enough to pull out his dick & balls - she was slurping and stroking him with the most enthusiasm I had ever seen. So incredibly hot!* In just a few seconds she noticed me standing a couple feet to the side and gave me a unique look, kind of like I'm sorry but I'm just doing what I was told. Puppy dog eyes for sure. They were both so worked up, hot and heavy to say the least. I gave them both a thumbs up and said "Looks like you guys are having some fun".* They paused right away kind of like they were caught doing something they wanted but probably should not have done. Rich asked me if everything was cool at the same time D asked if I was ok. I quickly replied "Absolutely!" with a big smile on my face and a raging hard on in my pants.
I then said "Hey Rich, you can definitely fuck her if you would like to". D immediately spoke up and said she did not want to cross any lines with his wife. We had just arrived and no one had discussed any boundaries or rules of any kind. Rich replied "If it makes any difference I have carte-blanche this weekend because it is my birthday". D asked what that meant and I explained in kind. She was looking a little uncomfortable from being caught off guard like that, and I could see she was a little nervous about taking things further. I could also see she was VERY worked up, I knew her pussy was soaking wet. I stepped in front of her and unsnapped my pants, and she immediately pulled my zipper down, cock out and started blowing me. I looked over at Rich and nodded. He stepped behind her, dropped his boxers and slid into her soaking wetness. She was going to town on me and being fucked from behind for just a short couple minutes when I grabbed her ponytail and said "I want you to come on his cock, girl!" She always responds really well to assertive dirty talk and this time was no different. In about fifteen seconds she exploded in one of the most intense orgasms she has ever had - still to this day. She groaned LOUD, twitched, convulsed and squirted a huge puddle all over his cock! This was the hottest thing I had ever been a part of. My beautiful wife being enjoyed like this in a "spit-roast", and I knew her buttons were pushed as this was one of the most intense reactions I've ever seen her have. We just learned how to make her squirt a few years prior but she had never done it while being fucked by any man.

Just a few seconds later I could not take it any more and unloaded in her mouth at the same time Rich let go. I can't remember if he pulled out and came on her back, came in her, or some combination of both. The room was dimly lit only with blacklight and that strobe effect from the corner. I did notice when he took a few steps back and flipped on the bathroom light - no condom! That actually came up in the future and will be part of another great story to come with these guys. He washed himself off in the sink, D and I wiped of the bench, adjusted a few things and the three of us walked upstairs all with huge smiles.

We had some more sexy fun throughout this weekend, but in a few different ways that did not result in much sexual contact with others.We discussed the implications of what happened that afternoon many times that weekend, and I still remind her from time to time with a raised eyebrow. There is still a little bit of mileage in that one actually - if I ever need it. I am not at all upset with what happened (very much the opposite actually) but wish we had been able to understand what was actually going through her mind on the ride up there. I think the thought of a house full of sexually open people including three single girls brought out some feelings she did not like, and deep inside was probably worried about MY contact with others.

This was not the first experience of this kind we've had but I wanted to start with one of my favorites. I will type more up from time to time as time permits. Thanks for reading!

The pics I've attached were all taken by me that weekend. A couple of the stairs and dungeon set-up. One of D posing over "the bench" during our tour upon arrival, and one of her in the outfit she changed to right before this happened.