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Originally Posted by Duran Duran
The fact you'd taken care of her made you desirable in her eyes. She also wanted to take care of your in return. I think this is something that often happens in women. It's built into their biology. Often, when my wife is really pleased with me for whatever reason (it's always to do with her, not a job bonus or the like), she will give me a quick massage out of the blue. Could be a quick shoulder or leg massage. But it's a signal, like a cat purring, that they are feeling strongly connected to you and very happy at that moment. I've had this happen many times over the years and not just with my wife.
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Oh, yes! My wife does things like baking me food that I don't actually want to eat, but I understand why, and it's the thought that counts. I wish her language would be more in the lines of oral sex, but beggars can't be choosers!
There was a period when I had a baby and spending a lot of time with my wife's sister because she was moving and needed a lot of help with things. Having the baby around made her crazy. I didn't realize it at the time, but we were going on walks together, she was pushing the stroller with me, we were sitting very close together, etc. But what shocked me back into reality was she sat next to me and snuggled into me so tightly that I felt her breasts pressing into me, then she kissed my neck. It freaked us both out as she didn't realize it either. Sadly, it spooked her so much that we haven't been closer than 5 feet from each other in many years since then (except a few exceptions, but very, very few).