My wife is pretty daring but insists on deniability when it’s with friends or people she knows. This is to avoid the risk of being labelled, as pointed out in one of the replies above.
One of our most trusted methods is the loose vest-type top sans bra that shows plenty of side boob. To my wife it’s much easier to pretend that she doesn’t know people can see much when it’s all side on and there’s no eye contact - there’s really limited scope for bending over in front of someone bra less in a low cut top and pretending you’re not showing him your 32Cs. 😊
Although it’s more subtle than the low cut top but needs a longer period to enable decent exposure such as nip as it’s more reliant on angles and body movements. We had decent success with this at a family bbq during the hot summer a few years back (2018?).
A key part of deniability it’s not overplaying it - ie never same method more than once with same person or with people who will compare notes. We hope to be able to use this one maybe once more - if we’re ever allowed near anyone again!
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