[cufan86]

Q32: You meant to send a nude photo of your wife to a buddy. You actually sent a nude photo of your wife to a group chat of about 10 more casual acquaintances. You quickly realize your mistake. After some good natured ribbing, everyone promises secrecy.

Do you tell your wife, knowing she will be furious, or hope the secret holds? (If you wife wouldn’t care, assume she would in this case due to who is in the group or another reason)

My answer: I came very very close to accidentally sending out a topless photo of my wife to a group of fellow football fans. I wrote about it elsewhere on the site. If I really did send out the photo, I would tell the wife. She might be furious but owning up to a mistake is better than her possibly finding out from someone else. With that many people, someone would reveal it, either by accident or deliberate. Far better that it comes from me.