Here's how I do it
...and you can find a few examples online. Firstly, I relax the woman with a lot of massage and foreplay. After that I massage her pussy, but very softly and slowly.
At this point I avoid her clit because I don't want her thinking about something she does to herself, and whether it's the right speed, spot or pressure.
The spot I'm shooting for is just past the pelvic girdle (10 o'clock to two o'clock). I move my fingertips (ring and middle) past the bone, and hook the last joint up to rub in circles; gradually bringing up the pressure, and then going back down.
Once she's worked up, I have her pin her legs back (knees around shoulders) to raise her bottom. Then I keep the same hook shape with my hand, and start pulling straight up to the ceiling. Up to the point of picking her up by the pussy.
Most important is that you're applying pressure past the pelvic bone. Not on it. There's a cartilagenous joint right at 12 o'clock that you don't want to damage. Also, pushing tissue into bone is painful - just like any ither massage.
This will make any woman squirt. Provided your fingers can reach and you have reasonably strong hands/forearms. It can be a workout!
First, do no harm!
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