I have a diary of sorts, that contains stories of most get-togethers we (or they) have had. But with all my wife and I have been through in the last couple of years, it seemed to monumental a task to edit them all and post them. Maybe that is something I can accomplish now that things are calming down! We'll see.
Let it suffice to know that this situation with Jim has been ongoing, but rare. We'll see if things pick up now that we have a place of our own!