Vulnerability in underwear situations?
Great insights, particularly
- public/private clothing
- context eg public beach / private bedroom
- seeing what is meant to be hidden
- who is meant to see and who is not
- the voyeur/ENF/EUF thrill
I would like to suggest "vulnerability".
Most men are physically stronger than most women and **** and sexual assault is something women worry about much more than men do. Girls are taught to protect themselves and not send out misleading signals. When it comes to love and sex, many men are hopeless wishful thinkers and fantasists - if I fancy her then she must obviously fancy me.
Most of the contexts of showing underwear are intimate, potentially vulnerable situations - only for people you trust and fancy.
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Most men will tell you that women are not always "rational" (maybe their women say the same thing about men). Sigmund Freud spent his life trying to work out what women want - and failed. All that most of us men have to do is to work out what ONE woman wants at that particular time - that can be difficult enough.
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