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Originally Posted by raysallx
I feel that when men and women spend a lot of time together, especially alone as in a carpool, things will naturally progress as long as they find each other attractive.
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Yeah. Totally agree. The highlighted part is main ingredient. And it's not just carpooling. I think it's anytime a woman spends a lot of time with a man in some way. BUT the rule is: As long as the woman finds the man attractive there will be sexual energy of some type. Most blokes will just enjoy the sexual attention even if they don't do anything about it, but if it's the other way round, watch out blokes, you'll be on the FBI's most perverted list!
And if you're married there is even more sexual energy. Women are attracted to taken men generally speaking as they show there is a level of competency.
After getting married I worked with a lass (also married) and we spent a lot of time together. One night I was dropping her off home and we sat in the car talking for a good 30 mins about stuff. We got along great. I knew she didn't want to get out of the car and she was hesitating and looking at me with
those types of eyes. I played dumb and pretended I wasn't reading the signals. Luckily I wasn't attracted to her even though she was attractive. Nothing happened and we are still friends today!
Another time a female coworker who sat next to me and was quite a bit younger than me started to show signs of having the hots for me in public. We got along well and had been working closely together for the past few months. Now this chick had a body to die for and was 22. Yes, I was sexually attracted to her, it would be hard for anybody not to be... women included I reckon! But her suggestive nature was getting more aggressive even though she knew I was engaged at the time. It culminated in her getting touchy feely at a bowling night (dead giveaway for Japanese lasses that they are into you) and divvying up the rides home she asked if I could drive her instead of going with the people she came with. I hesitated, but said yes, because had I said no, i'd be an a-hole. People had noticed her getting touchy feely with me during the night, so I was freaking out a bit until another person asked to come with us. Luckily I changed offices soon after. I would never have done anything as it was work, but it just saved it from becoming more awkward than it already was.