..because I like
There’s probably no single right answers to this question. When I first responded on this thread I talked about my wife fulfilling a fantasy from my youth when us teenage boys would furtively share the relatively softcore pics of willing floozies provocatively flaunting themselves in the down market magazines of the day. I actually preferred down-market to up market. Down market girls are more likely to be amateurs doing it for the buzz rather than perfect models doing it for a career or money. I wanted one of those ladies and eventually got one! Somebody on this thread put it very well: When we see our wives doing their provocative stuff in public we see them through the eyes of others and in a different light. This renews our interest in them. A sexual psychologist suggested that when we view our wives in this context it stimulates a kind competitive sexual feeding frenzy of which we become part. That may be true as well but what I personally don’t buy is the idea that it’s about control. It may be for some but I personally like to see the uninhibited coquette freely turning on the guys because she enjoys doing it! Actually it would probably help if we studied this subject to a PhD level like this bookish lady below:
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