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Originally Posted by winston optic beer
It has been postulated that reason for this is that the candualist deeply identifies with his wife's body. This makes more sense of it to me.
The dual in candualism implies it's a joint activity. No one wants to see the male exhibitionist naked, so perhaps he uses his wife as a substitute - a vicarious pleasure to compensate for this disappointment.
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I think that's def true for some people, but I have no desire for people to watch me unless they are at my place or theirs and we're going to have sex.
My wife does like to show off her body when she gets horny and although she'll sometimes say it's because I like it (I do, but it's plausible deniability), when she gets really horny, she's really into showing herself off naked and loves the idea of being watched.
Some of my wife's best orgasms were when she was showing herself off online and the bigger the number got, the more she got off. Was a long time ago and we've not done that for many years now. Don't even know what sites do that type of stuff anymore.